Work and pauses are paramount to efficiently stabilize relationships between you and others while being able bring guranteedly bring actual substance and growth into our short lives on earth.
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The idea of: full time acting as companion to various selected people on earth. And the concept of how it is feasible is already present in these Ang moh who no need to work and can spare continuous connected time following up with whoever.
Key point: Everytime communication stops for too long most things go back to square 0 or if not 0, like by -10 steps. This is part contributed by moral hazard buildup as time passes and people can change (in trustworthiness) in between.
Shouldn’t this be brought into consideration for the working world?
The problem: You know so many peoples effort over the years so much money spent so much time spent. To try to connect ended up with either nothing OR people hating each other even more, AND those people who failed in those relationships began plastering and spending money and time on even worst substances and distractions. It’s like a cycle of negative karma and zero growth. All the money and surplus produced in human society all go down the drain restart to zero.
Let me be the one to experiment it. To understand the concept of “social income”.
Another example to characterise the case in point. Why can emotional scammers get social capital so well? The key reason is only because they continuous talk to their target and people that is despite they have multiple targets. Yet they can still give the amount of care and moral hazard management similar to an exclusive relationship. Even an exclusive relationship with the person need to work, cannot compare.
So the root reason is then: because that is a scammer’s full time job.
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Corollary.
People don’t want to find out the truths in life. To find out what works and what doesn’t. They only want to know whether they can trust you and even if they can’t trust you, can they guarantee (using social skin in the game traps) your provision of specific help in times ahead.
Now this will cause an effect to happen where because people kept ignoring truths and reality, and just invested their time in skin in the game and community regardless of the functional feasibility of the mindsets of the relationships connections, humans ended up very stupid very illogical and need even more help to survive their dire mistakes all throughout their life. And worst, they will never learn from their mistakes even until they die.
Now what I propose is that. We should teach people that these two distinct things are actually happening and so they ARE aware. And then they will then have incentive to control what they KNOW exists. And then people should balance time spent on social capital building and time spent on finding out truths.
You can’t spend all day finding out truths also like me. Because I focused on that, I have little friends as I didn’t have the time to follow up to make acquaintances into stable friends.
Also with this model it now also makes sense why a rich person who needs to work can take in a person they like and give them food and shelter and this person no need to work and it still works. Because the rich people really need the companionship. It is providing more surplus to them than material needs at that point of time.
But you see a companion without life skills or actual skills and experience in the working world would not be able to provide the social support to a person. That is why I didnt really benefit from relationships with escorts or prositutez. Their costs do not justify as they provide no solid experience to grow me as a person.
So yes. If I can become the full time companion and yet had years of proven experience in the functional communities including working economy. That’s where, I will be have the “unique selling point”.
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Action item: I want to quit my job again and when I quit this time to focus on following up on all my potential relationships including overseas. Each relationship I hope to follow up until they become stable, like the chemical bonds became stable and not naturally disintegrating anymore without energy provision.